Unsafe Spaces…
21st May 2026
Good evening my most beautiful and precious starshine {} xxx
It’s 20:44. I hope you didn’t get home too late and you’re enjoying a very chilled and restful evening. I hope you’re okay my lovely. Just one more day {} xxx
I imagine your loved ones are in high spirits after the fantastic win. Wonderful!! The clips of the cheering crowds, welcoming their heroes in Brum, were amazing weren’t they?!! Did they join in? I hope so xx
With the EHRC guidance being published today, we would leave the country right now if we could. It no longer feels safe. Liron’s terrified. She has been since the Supreme Court’s decision last year.
Unsurprisingly, the media are only reporting a fraction of the report. The Guardian’s headline is “Single-sex toilets must exclude transgender people, says EHRC”, which is not entirely true. The guidance also says that people can be judged by their appearance, as to whether they can use the men’s or women’s toilet. This creates another minefield. People can also be questioned about their biological sex, which is so fucked up.
There are also many cis and non-binary women and men who don’t look/conform to the gender stereotype. They’ve made it unsafe for so many people.
From the small extracts I’ve seen, there’s a lot of contradictions in the guidance, which makes it more confusing. It’s open to interpretation, which makes it more dangerous.
In the same breath, the government announced that London is due to host the European International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia (IDAHOT+) Forum in May 2027. Unbelievable!!
I know that the majority of people will carry on as normal, and won’t even question anyone, but as you know, it only takes a few to cause harm.
How is at work? I imagine you’ve had to follow the guidance since last year.
It’s 22:09. I’ll shut up now. I need to get to sleep. I have therapy at 10:00 tomorrow. I’ve been feeling so ill today with the fluely symptoms.
I am extremely worried about Liron. It’s affecting her severely. We feel completely helpless. She says the goal of Sex Matters, who are driving this, is to eradicate the existence of transgender people. They won’t succeed, but they’re harming so many.
It’s 22:22. Nnight my precious starshine. I wish I could speak with you directly. I can’t tell you how much I miss you. I’ve tried not to, but it’s impossible. I really do hope you are keeping well and everything is okay. I really hope so {} xxx
I’m going to make face and teeth happy.
I’m just in my adapted kitchen. If you can, please look out of your north facing window. You’ll see the most magical sight to your left. Moon, Jupiter and Venus are in perfect alignment. They look majestic. They really have brightened and warmed my heart. I hope your precious heart is beaming as well. I always think of you and say hello when I see them {} xxx
I’ve just taken this photo in case you miss them xx
Nnight my brightest shining star xx Sleep well, sleep restfully and peacefully, with sweet dreams for all of us {} xxx
I love you so much, and I’m hugging you with the biggest comforting bear hug in the whole universe {} xxxx